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A More Affordable Olfactionary

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Amouage Epic Woman

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Amouage Jubilation 25 

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Amouage Opus I

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Amouage Opus V

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Annick Goutal Ambre Fetiche

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April Aromatics Calling All Angels

April Aromatics Bohemian Spice

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April Aromatics Nectar of Love

April Aromatics Rose L'Orange

Aroma M Geisha Green

Aroma M Geisha Rouge

Arquiste Anima Dulcis

Arquiste Boutonniere no. 7

At the Moment (Chanel 22 & Marshall Crenshaw)

At the Moment (Contemplating Change & Habit Rouge)

At the Moment (Marron Chic & Paris)

At the Moment (More Midsummer Delights/Epic/Geisha Noire)

At the Moment (Saki & Lubin Idole edt)

At the Moment (Secret de Suzanne /D'Orsay L'Intrigante)

At the Moment (Spring Pretties/Un Air de Samsara)

At the Moment (Summery Things...Love Coconut)

At the Moment (Vera Wang & Fireman's Fair novel)

Ava Luxe Café Noir

Beatnik Emptiness Incense

Best of 2009

Bond No. 9 Andy Warhol Silver Factory

Bond No. 9 Brooklyn

Bond No. 9 Little Italy

Bond No. 9 New Haarlem

Bottega Veneta eau de parfum

Breath of God

Byredo Green

By Kilian Amber Oud

By Kilian Forbidden Games and In the City of Sin

Calyx by Prescriptives

Canturi by Stefano Canturi

Capote, Truman & Evening in Paris

Carner Barcelona D600

Caron Aimez-Moi

Caron French Cancan

Caron Parfum Sacre

Caron Tabac Blond

Caron Tubereuse

Caron Yatagan

Cartier II L'Heure Convoitee

Cartier IV L'Heure Fougueuse

Chanel 31 Rue Cambon

Chanel Bel Respiro

Chanel Chance

Chanel Coco

Chanel Coromandel

Chanel Cuir de Russie

Chanel Egoiste

Chanel No. 5 (vintage)

Chanel No. 22

Chantecaille Petales

Chantilly Dusting Powder

Clive Christian C for Women

Comme des Garcons Daphne

Comme des Garcons LUXE Champaca

Comme des Garcons Series 7 Sweet Nomad Tea

Costes by Costes

Coty Ambre Antique

Coty Chypre

Coty Paris

Creature by Kerosene

Creed Acqua Fiorentina

Creed Fleurs de Bulgarie

Creed Virgin Island Water

DSH Perfumes Bancha Extreme

DSH Perfumes Quinacridone Violet 

DSH Perfumes Vert pour Madame

Deneuve

Devilscent Project

Dior Diorissimo (vintage)

Donna Karan Black Cashmere

EnVoyage Vents Ardents

EnVoyage Zelda

Estee Lauder Private Collection

Estee Lauder Private Collection Jasmine White Moss

Etat Libre d'Orange Rien, Rossy de Palma & Noel au Balcon

Faberge Woodhue Cologne

Favorite Fall Fragrances

Fendi Uomo

Fragrances for Sweden

Frapin 1697 Absolu Parfum

Frederic Malle Angeliques Sous La Pluie

Frederic Malle Bigarade Concentrée

Frederic Malle Carnal Flower

Frederic Malle Dans Tes Bras

Frederic Malle Geranium Pour Monsieur

Frederic Malle Iris Poudre

Frederic Malle Le Parfum de Therese

Frederic Malle Lipstick Rose

Frederic Malle Noir Epices

Frederic Malle Portrait of a Lady

Frederic Malle Une Fleur de Cassie

Frederic Malle Une Rose

Geoffrey Beene Grey Flannel

Ghosts of Perfumes Past, Present & Future

Gone Fishin'

Gucci Eau de Parfum

Gucci L'Arte di Gucci

Gucci Pour Homme

Guerlain Aqua Allegoria Lys Soleia

Guerlain Aroma Allegoria Exaltant

Guerlain Attrape Coeur

Guerlain Chamade

Guerlain Jicky

Guerlain Mayotte

Guerlain Parure

Guerlain Samsara Parfum

Guerlain Un Air de Samsara

Guerlain Vega

Guerlain Vetiver (vintage)

Guy Laroche J'ai Ose (vintage)

Happy Solstice

Hermes 24, Faubourg

Hermes Caleche (vintage)

Hermes Eau des Merveilles

Hermes Hiris

Hermes Iris Ukiyoe

Hermes L'Ambre des Merveilles

Histoires de Parfums 1740

Histoires de Parfums 1828

Histoires de Parfums Blanc Violette

Histoires de Parfums Vert Pivoine

Hometown Portrait, State College, PA

Honore des Pres Vamp a NY

House of Matriarch Carmine

How I Store Decants

Il Profumo Cannabis

In Memory (w/mention of Lanvin Arpege)

Jacomo #02

Jacomo #09 (Link to my review in Sniffapalooza Magazine)

Jean Desprez Bal a Versailles

Jean Patou Joy

Jean Patou 1000

Jo Malone Saffron Cologne Intense

Jo Malone Sweet Milk Cologne 

Juliet by Juliet Stewart

Kai Eau de Parfum

Kenzo Jungle l’Elephant

Kenzo Summer

Lancome Magie Noire (vintage) 

Lanvin Via Lanvin (vintage) 

L'Artisan Parfumeur Nuit de Tubereuse

L'Artisan Parfumeur Orchidee Blanche 

L’Artisan Parfumeur Passage d’Enfer

L'Artisan Parfumeur Seville a l'Aube

L’Artisan Parfumeur Tea for Two

La Via del Profumo Balsamo Della Mecca

La Via del Profumo Hindu Kush

La Via del Profumo Milano Caffe

La Via del Profumo Oud Caravan Project

La Via del Profumo Sharif

La Via del Profumo Tawaf

Le Labo Gaiac 10

Le Labo Iris 39

Le Labo Patchouli 24

Le Labo Poivre 23

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Lorenzo Villoresi Yerbamate

M. Micallef Vanille Orient

Maison Francis Kurkdjian Absolue Pour le Soir

Maison Martin Margiela (untitled) eau de parfum

Maitre Parfumeur et Gantier Eau des Iles

Message In A Bottle 

Michael Storer Winter Star

Miller Harris L'Air de Rien

Miscellany

Missoni (original) by Missoni

Molinard Habanita

Mona Di Orio Nuit Noire

Mona Di Orio Oud

Mona Di Orio Vanille

Montale Black Aoud

Montale Boise Vanille

Montale Intense Tiare

Montale Patchouli Leaves

Montale Red Aoud

More Roses (rose cookie recipe)

My Heart Has Skipped a Beat (summer smells)

My Perfumes Have Theme Songs

Nasomatto China White

Neila Vermeire Creations Bombay Bling

Nina Ricci L'Air du Temps

Nez a Nez Ambre a Sade

Northern Exposure "A Dash of Chanel No. 5"

Odin 04 Petrana (Link to my review in Sniffapalooza Magazine)

Olivier Durbano Black Tourmaline

Omar Sharif Pour Femme

Oriscent Pure Oud Oils

Ormonde Jayne Frangipani

Ormonde Jayne Ormonde Woman

Oscar de la Renta Oscar for Men

O Tannenbaum Joint Blog Project

Parfum d'Empire Azemour

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Parfumerie Generale Bois de Copaiba

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Parfumerie Generale Un Crime Exotique

Parfums de Nicolai Sacrebleu

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Parfums Karl Lagerfeld Sun Moon Stars

Parfums MDCI Chypre Palatin

Parfums Retro Grand Cuir

Paris, je t'aime

Pascal Morabito Or Black 

Perfume Quotes - The English Patient

Prada Infusion d'Iris Absolue

Pretty Perfume Bottles 

Prince Matchabelli Aviance Cologne (vintage) 

Profumum Roma Acqua Viva

Profumum Roma D'Ambrosia

Puredistance I

Puredistance Antonia

Puredistance BLACK

Puredistance M

Puredistance Opardu

Ramon Monegal Cherry Musk

Ramon Monegal Pure Mariposa

Recipe for Socca

Regina Harris Amber Vanilla Perfume Oil

Regina Harris Frankincense-Myrrh-Rose Maroc Perfume Oil

Robert Piguet Fracas

Robert Piguet Visa

Rochas Mystere 

Rome Vacation Photos

San Francisco Holiday

Sarah Horowitz Parfums' Joy Comes From Within & Beauty Comes From Within

Scented Reading

Scents of the Mediterranean

Scentuous Reading: One Hundred Years of Solitude

Serge Lutens Arabie

Serge Lutens Borneo 1834

Serge Lutens Boxeuses

Serge Lutens Chêne

Serge Lutens Chergui

Serge Lutens Fille en Aiguilles

Serge Lutens Five O’Clock Au Gingembre

Serge Lutens Fumerie Turque

Serge Lutens Miel de Bois

Serge Lutens Muscs Koublai Khan

Serge Lutens Tubereuse Criminelle

Serge Lutens Un Lys

Serge Lutens Vetiver Oriental

Slumberhouse Rume

Snow Days

Sonoma Scent Studio Incense Pure

Sonoma Scent Studio Jour Ensoleille

Sonoma Scent Studio Voile de Violette

Sonoma Scent Studio Winter Woods (brief mention)

SoOud Ouris Parfum Nectar

S-Perfume 100% Love {More}

Stone Harbor, NJ Vacaton pix (non-perfume related)

Strange Invisible Perfumes Lyric Rain

Sweden Is For Lovers

T is for Taxes

Tauer Perfumes: Incense Extrême, Incense Rosé, Lonestar Memories, & Reverie au Jardin

Tauer Perfumes Vetiver Dance

The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay

The Diary of a Nose, Book Review

The Different Company Jasmin de Nuit

The Intimacy of Scent

Thoughts of a Perfume Collector

Tightly

Tokyo Milk Ex Libris

Unlocking an Unknown: Webber Parfum 6T

Velvet & Sweet Pea's Purrfumery Bed of Roses

Venimus Vidimus Vicimus, or How 3 Perfume Bloggers and a Husband Took Rome

Vero Profumo Kiki, Onda, and Rubj

Vero Profumo Mito

Viktoria Minya Hedonist

Viktor & Rolfe Flowerbomb

What I’m Lovin’ Now

Xerjoff Mamluk

YOSH Perfumes Ginger Ciao

Yves Saint Laurent Nu

THOUGHTS OF A PERFUME COLLECTOR

 

The other day, under the influence of a tantalizing holiday sale, I ordered a new perfume that I had decided months ago I wasn’t going to purchase. Not because I couldn’t afford it, but because my perfume collection has reached a number that sometimes bothers me, mostly because it’s a number that begs the question, am I being selfish?

 

And the answer, of course, is yes, absolutely I am. Lord knows I have enough perfume to last two or three lifetimes.

 

But after turning this question over some, I feel I can truthfully say that my most selfish expressions have precious little to do with my perfume hobby. I would even go so far to say that wandering down the perfumista path has opened me up to being a better person, as cornball as that sounds.

 

Call me Pollyanna if you will, but when I began smelling fragrances that reminded me of people and places I once cherished (some of whom I can only return to in memory); when I began reading perfume blogs and getting caught up in the thoughts, feelings and stories of fellow travelers on this scented path; and when I realized that sharing a favorite perfume with other people is more enjoyable than keeping it to myself, I became far more connected to others. And by way of those connections, more generous, too.

 

Back at the start of this decade I was wearing only one fragrance. I won’t disclose the name, for it is sure to elicit groans and make you question whether you should continue reading me, but suffice it to say that I had a steady thing with this fragrance and thought of it as my scent, though it could be easily had at any department store. Even when I was working at Penn State University in the mid-'90s (the heydey for this fragrance) amid the many polished and professional offices of “Old Main,” I never came across another woman who wore this perfume, so it really felt like it was my signature scent.

 

Or it did until the day my sister asked me what I was wearing and decided she wanted some of that action. And she being, well, Heather—as lovely and perfect-sounding as her name—blessed with the kind of skin that defied all manner of zit when we were teenagers, and which the perfume gods smiled upon as well—started getting perfume compliments from practically everyone in town. Her eye doctor (same one as mine) asked her for the name of it so he could purchase a bottle for his wife. Her dentist liked it too. Friends, co-workers, strangers at the mall…they all wanted to know what she was wearing.

 

I must insert here that Heather is as sweet as a kitten; in fact, she is saintly in many ways. She gets up at 4:30 every morning to help out with the chores on her husband’s family farm before heading out to her real job, which is pretty demanding. (She’s the chief financial officer for a non-profit organization that helps troubled youths—not to mention the mother of two teenage daughters.)  I should have felt nothing except honored to share the same fragrance with her. But of course, that’s never the way, is it?

 

It agitated me that we could walk into the same room together wearing the identical scent, and someone would always come up to her and say, “Wow, you smell good!” while they simply nodded hello to me. At some level, I was probably aware that the compliments she received were only tangentially related to fragrance, but that level was buried beneath insecurities that go back to adolescence and to which, sadly, age hasn’t made me entirely immune. It didn’t matter that I was in my late thirties then and should have been embarrassed to be playing the beauty card: I read every perfume compliment that she received (and I didn’t) as acknowledgement that she was and always would be “the pretty one”—even in terms of scent.

 

Then along came the Internet, like a knight on a white horse, to rescue me. It offered the promise of helping me find a fragrance that would be more exclusively mine—with the accent on “exclusive.”  Something prohibitively expensive and difficult to find, something perhaps even more challenging to wear (as in Jicky parfum). And indeed, the Internet delivered on that promise so well that I don’t have to say more—except to make my point that here is where I think it really did rescue me, to some degree, from myself.

 

Certainly the Internet encourages self-indulgence, and while that can have tragic circumstances, it can have the opposite effect too. Somehow when I went looking for an exclusive fragrance, I stumbled upon a host of wonderful things: not just fragrances, but a community of fragrance lovers, a body of knowledge to explore, gorgeous perfume writings from every corner of the globe, and an infectious air of enthusiasm that, like all of these other things, flies in the face of exclusivity. Why?  Because these are things that beg to be shared. Not only with other enthusiasts, but also with sisters, moms, husbands, friends and complete strangers.

 

Perfume collecting has given me the kind of decadent experience that has been costly, true, but has resulted in a largesse of spirit. I don’t look at my favorite perfumes as ‘mine’ anymore—and now that I no longer feel the territorial need to own a signature scent, I’ve stopped being miserly in many ways, most of which have nothing to do with money.


Image: "Perfume Bottles on Display in Suq, Dubai, United Arab Emirates" by Phil Weymouth is from Art.com.

Posted by Suzanne Keller, 12/3/2009.


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